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Welcome and thanks for visiting!

My life is pretty chill (read: boring). Every day I make choices that result in the end of a generational of trauma. I’m married and while it isn’t always easy, I recommit each day to being present for myself, my husband, and my child. My family is my primary focus because I want my child to know what love feels like so they aren’t desperate for it the way I was at their age. Together, the three of us are working to keep our family a safe space for us all.

Welcome to my newest home on the web. I am working to get back to my basic love of blogging by starting a new site, writing about what I want, when I want to, and not worrying so much about creating a niche. In fact, I say screw niche’s. I’m an every-person-kind-of-woman.

Mostly, I’m discovering that I am enough. My flaws, my missteps, my failures don’t define me. I’m a Blerd, socially awkward, introvert, weed smoker, who curses like a sailor, plays with art and yarn, drinks wine and sometimes too many White Claws, and reads more than most people I know. I also play video games, laugh loudly, and exist in all my apple-shaped-glory!

Thanks for sticking around and coming back often. I plan to write weekly to start. And while you’re here, sign up for my newsletter. Seriously, it has gotten great reviews from my husband and child.

Their smile is everything i need these days! #MyChild ...

Today is my 44th birthday and our 18th wedding anniversary. Celebrate with us by adding your fave feel-good songs to our collaborative playlist.

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I love nerds! 不不不#AZDanieleExperience #getalifechloebrown ...

Gute is working on #bonehenge #bostonyorkie ...

I love my lopsided #minifro so much that took down my twists and decided not to relock my hair until after my birthday. ...

I found this gem that Andrew took of Mya and me (2009) in Yonkers NY while scrolling through the 28100+ photos in my icloud. #theAzDanieleExperience ...

Some light #july4th reading. #dothework #BraveSpaces @incluu.us ...

ETA: Yes. its 24 years.

23 years ago @cooldaddy_d decided to stop playing games and admit he loved me. I mean, how could he not!? But on June 4, 1997 he told me he loved me. Weve been together ever since. #DrewKayGerg #24years #theAzDanieleExperience
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Im trying to embrace self-promotion.

@OP: What poets do you feel take risks in their work?

This can be in regards to subject, form, voice, style, etc

Me: Me! My collection, I wandered, lost is filled with risks!!!
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Me: What are you doing?
Him: COD
Me: Cool. i am listening to classical music and cleaning my hard drive. Cry-laughing-emoji
him: Cool i guess.

#thisIsus#theAzDanieleExperience
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TFYG when you are where you belong with the folks you should be with- when the call goes from bizness to laughter to tears is called feeling valued, honored, respected #BlackISBeautiful #inclusion ...

Happy Mothers Day! Spent the day playing video games with the family but only after @cooldaddy_d and @itsyagergcj_ made me breakfast! Now, im reading, coloring, and smoking some #SuperSilverCheesePopcorn#theAzDanieleExperience ...

Happy Mothers Day to those who parent from love and are working hard to end generational trauma. You are seen, loved, and valued! #theAzDanieleExperience ...

Its so disappointing to be hyped to play a game only to open it up to see Black people dont exist in this universe. #WarfareChess ...

Its your birthday! Its the day you were born... @itsyagergcj_#theAzDanieleExperience ...

Happy 15th Birthday baby! I love you so much!#theAzDanieleExperience ...

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