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Welcome and thanks for visiting!

My life is pretty chill (read: boring). Every day I make choices that result in the end of a generational of trauma. I’m married and while it isn’t always easy, I recommit each day to being present for myself, my husband, and my child. My family is my primary focus because I want my child to know what love feels like so they aren’t desperate for it the way I was at their age. Together, the three of us are working to keep our family a safe space for us all.

Welcome to my newest home on the web. I am working to get back to my basic love of blogging by starting a new site, writing about what I want, when I want to, and not worrying so much about creating a niche. In fact, I say screw niche’s. I’m an every-person-kind-of-woman.

Mostly, I’m discovering that I am enough. My flaws, my missteps, my failures don’t define me. I’m a Blerd, socially awkward, introvert, weed smoker, who curses like a sailor, plays with art and yarn, drinks wine and sometimes too many White Claws, and reads more than most people I know. I also play video games, laugh loudly, and exist in all my apple-shaped-glory!

Thanks for sticking around and coming back often. I plan to write weekly to start. And while you’re here, sign up for my newsletter. Seriously, it has gotten great reviews from my husband and child.

I’m working on ridding myself of the guilt that comes from being unable to “do” and “fix” things. I’d like to sleep unbothered like #GutenbergDaniele ...

#LoveIsGod @azwilderness #DontFuckItUp ...

Looks like #Wineapple o’clock! ...

Nice seeing him with his #sister for the first time since 2018. #family ...

Someone on my neighborhood Facebook told others to protect their kids b/c i am an atheist and a witch. Should i tell her I’m also an omnivore so I’m likely to cook children and eat them with broccoli! Hide your chirrun and ya plants! ...

“Let go of who you think you need to be and just be who you actually are” credit: unknown ...

We spent some time at a small taco spot in #rooseveltrow . It’s been 20+ years and we’ve supported each other through so much. But we like BORING! #NobodyBaby #WhatsUpDanger ...

The Gerg dressed up as #GhostFace from #SCREAM and handed out candy. They even did some trick or treating with their dad! We had a good night! Be safe y’all! ...

#HappyHalloween ...

#HappyHalloween ...

Behaviors developed when raised in #PunishmentCulture

1) lie.
2) avoid.
3) prolong.
4) lie.
5) anger.
...

We hunted dinos today! Take a look! #GutieCutieBooty #bostonyorkie ...

I picked these up at @grassrootzbookstore. The hubs found them in PHX and we spent some time looking at their offerings! I bought some art prints too. ...

Gutenberg has taken to sprawling out on my bed, sleeping and relaxed in a way that makes me envious. But it’s the subtle movements of his paw and ears that make me melt. ...

Being a friend means knowing that when you see something like this you buy it because your friend is a member of the Scooby gang! Thanks @teanhoneybread ...

I like #BigHats and I cannot lie! ...

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